These are warning signs someone is being abused:
- May be apologetic and make excuses for the abusive behaviour
- Has no friends or family - no access to a phone
- Is nervous about talking when their partner is there
- Tries to cover up bruises
- Fears for their life and for their children’s safety
- Makes excuses or avoids you on the street
- Is in denial and cannot see their risk
- Blames self for the violent behaviour and “walks on eggshells”
- Seems sad, lonely, withdrawn and is afraid
- Seems sick more often and misses work
- Seems defensive and angry
- Copes by using drugs or alcohol
- Is involved in another relationship
- Is in a custody battle for their children
Here are some signs that someone is acting abusively:
- Puts partner down and acts superior
- Does all the talking and dominates the conversation
- Tries to keep them away from family and friends
- Checks up on them all the time, even at work
- Hits or slaps
- Threatens to harm their partner or their children, pets or property
- Makes direct or indirect threats involving firearms
- Minimizes the violent behaviour – claims to be the victim
- Says they can’t live without the other and threatens suicide
- Has a history of abusing others, even animals
- Has no regard for the law
- Abuses drugs or alcohol
- Is extremely jealous and suspicious
- Uses access to the children to harass the other parent
Courtesy of Public Legal Education and Information Service of NB, Safer Families…Safer Communities.
